‘After 24 years together, my husband and I divorced; then I married a woman and he married a man 40 years younger than him’
1 July 2019
Coming out to your parents can be a daunting experience, but what’s it like for a parent to come out to their children?
Mornings with Kaye Adams heard from a woman who, after being married to a man for 24 years, divorced him and later married another woman. Kaye also heard that the caller’s ex-husband married another man, meaning that both parents were now in same-sex relationships.
The caller described how her worry about coming out was alleviated by the reaction of her two eldest children.
“So what’s the problem? You are still our mum.”
Coming out later in life

What’s it like to wait until your 30s or 40s to come out as gay? What holds people back? (From 2018)
My Lesbian Mums
Jillian spoke to her two mums, brother and step-sisters to learn how they coped with their mums coming out. She also met a male couple to find out how their kids coped with being told dad was gay. (From 2017)
Jay-Z cried when mum came out
Advice on coming out
Latest features from ÃÛÑ¿´«Ã½ Scotland
-
'Wild swimming helps me process the grief of losing my son'
The benefits of cold water therapy.
-
Winter adventures are appealing, but an expert advises caution
Trips in winter require particular knowledge and skills.
-
The rescuers: Why volunteers risk their lives in mountain emergencies
Landward meets members of the Cairngorm Mountain Rescue Team.
-
‘Look for the light’ – practical tips to help you through another winter with SAD
Useful advice and tips to combat low moods at this time of year.
-
How you could be a binge drinker without even knowing
Binge drinking is classed as fewer units than many people may realise.
-
How chocolate biscuits and drama classes helped one man leave prison behind
The healing power of creativity.
-
'When people believe in you, it’s life-changing'
Author Graeme Armstrong revisits the man who helped turn his life around.
-
The 'breath-taking' display of US birds swept on to British soil
Recent storms have brought rare birds to our shores.
-
Six things we learned about Alan Cumming on Take the Floor (Spoiler: includes accordions)
The actor spoke to Take the Floor's Gary Innes.
-
How street gangs trap young men in a dangerous cycle of violence
The almost inescapable pull of life in a gang.
-
Why stylist Gok Wan believes there's no such thing as bad fashion
The fashion expert says we should stop following rules and do what feels right.
-
Is sending a CV still the right way to apply for a job?
They've been central to job applications for years, but are they worth it?