Guide to Life: Turning Ageing Into Your Superpower
It’s a gift not a flaw – how to reframe getting older.
Ageing can quietly unsettle us. It’s not just the physical changes or another birthday ticked off—it’s the creeping sense of time passing, of energy waning, of wondering whether we’re still seen and heard in the same way. These fears often sit just beneath the surface, unspoken but deeply felt.
But what if they’re pointing us towards something valuable?
In this episode of The Woman’s Hour Guide to Life, we’re exploring the emotional landscape of ageing—and how the very things we worry about might hold the key to something empowering. Because growing older isn’t only about loss. It can bring clarity, confidence, and a renewed sense of freedom. It might even be your greatest strength.
We’ll look at how shifting our mindset can help us embrace ageing, rather than resist it—and why this stage of life could be one of the most overlooked sources of joy and resilience.
Joining Nuala McGovern are three insightful women who are helping to reshape how we think about ageing:
- Dr Kerry Burnight, 58, a Gerontologist and author of the New York Times bestseller Joyspan: The Art and Science of Thriving in Life’s Second Half.
- Jacqueline Hooton, 62, a personal trainer and ‘ageing well’ coach behind the Instagram community Her Garden Gym, with over half a million followers—and author of Strong.
- Dr Emma Kirkby-Geddes, 57, a therapist and writer of the Substack blog The Ageing Psychologist.
Together, they’ll help us confront the fears, challenge the clichés, and discover why ageing might just be the most powerful chapter of all.
Key takeaways from this episode:
- Ageing is a gift, not a flaw. Every year you live is a privilege denied to many. Instead of fixating on wrinkles or grey hairs, celebrate the wisdom, resilience, and stories that come with time.
- Flip the script on compliments. When someone says, “You look good for your age,” smile and say, “I just look good.” No qualifiers needed. You’re not defying age—you’re defining beauty on your own terms.
- Challenge your inner ageist. Notice those sneaky thoughts that equate youth with value. Ask yourself: Where did that belief come from? Then rewrite the narrative. Age doesn’t diminish you—it deepens you.
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Links to episodes:
Guide to Life: Is Friendship Just Another Task? /sounds/play/p0m4q078
Guide to Life: Ambition Without Burnout: /sounds/play/p0m5532v
Guide to Life: Challenging Your Money Mindset: /sounds/play/p0m554dk
The Woman's Hour Guide to Life is presented by Nuala McGovern. It is produced by Sarah-Jane Griffiths with Sophie Powling. Digital and audio production is by David Lloyd. The Content Editor is Olivia Bolton. The Executive Editor is Karen Dalziel.
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