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Azola鈥檚 friends welcomed him to fatherhood with a surprise baby shower, called a nappy braai. Instead of the chilled Saturday barbecue he was expecting, they handed him a beer and an adult nappy and told him to suit up.

Azola thinks it鈥檚 important to mark milestones. When he was born in South Africa in 1990, the country was just emerging from apartheid. Families didn鈥檛 talk openly about their hopes and dreams because life was so uncertain, so he wants to be intentional about celebrating big moments in his children鈥檚 lives.

He tells Namulanta how he founded an organisation called Black Dads Unplugged 鈥� with the motto 鈥渁ctive fatherhood is the new black鈥�. They are part of a new generation of South African dads trying to do things differently.

Letter writer: Azola

Dear Daughter is an award-winning podcast from the 蜜芽传媒 World Service about love, life, family, and raising children. It is the brainchild of Namulanta Kombo, a mother on a quest to create a 鈥榟andbook to life鈥� for her daughter, through the advice of parents from all over the world.

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