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It brought back memories I鈥檇 never thought to revisit. Yesterday on this programme we heard how Limarra and her daughter will be spending Christmas. Three months since they鈥檝e had a home; sleeping on granny鈥檚 sofas; not knowing where they鈥檒l next call theirs. Nuveyuh, nine, said poignantly, 鈥淚 would like a house鈥. On the 蜜芽传媒 news page, Carly Stutter鈥檚 three children haven鈥檛 opened some of last Christmas鈥檚 presents, still in a friend鈥檚 shed; they鈥檝e had to give away their dog. 鈥淭he kids keep me going,鈥 she admitted. A hundred and thirty one thousand children without their own home this Christmas, according to Shelter. Five in every school. Nearly one per cent. You won鈥檛 see them sleeping in doorways, thank goodness. As we ourselves discovered, you cast around for friends 鈥 or grannies 鈥 with sofas. Most people didn鈥檛 believe it when it happened to us. Perhaps they still don鈥檛. My husband Shaun is a clergyman so we鈥檇 never owned our own home. Some time ago he accepted a new church post and at first we were placed in temporary rented accommodation. After eight months the rented housing ended and we were told we were 鈥渃amping out鈥. For the next eight months Shaun and I and our five children, two with disabilities and a toddler, were split up; hundreds of miles apart; borrowing sofa beds and spare rooms; some of us, sometimes, with my parents. Everything we owned in a kind friend鈥檚 barn; losing much-loved pets; wearing borrowed clothes. Only for Christmas, were we together. Three homes borrowed in succession, from generous people we didn鈥檛 even know. Month after month, Shaun kept himself going by picturing our youngest: her smile of pure joy when she would next see him. Many, of course, are far worse off than we ever were. Our previous vicarage neighbour, once a concert pianist, lived in a car... till someone towed it away when he was in hospital. Our friend Tony鈥檚 only shelter was Putney Bridge. On your way to work this morning, you may pass several huddles under archways. And yet I still hear, 鈥淧eople choose this lifestyle鈥. Move them on. Spikes in doorsteps. Board up portals to preclude even such poor shelter. A council contemplates a bylaw banning feeding. As if people were pesky pigeons. Or human beings, vermin. Another tried to fine them for cluttering up the streets. Living souls as litter. You and I? We look away. Hurry on. Never dream we might be brought so low. I think of One who gave up everything at Christmas: to be laid in straw; under a borrowed roof; before going on the run. When the King returns, we may ask Him: when did we see you hungry and feed you? Or a stranger, and take you in? Or sleeping rough and smile, and ask how you are? Truly I tell you, when you did it for the least of my brethren, you did it unto me.
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