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Hello Callum,
I still remember your voices of different kinds of cats. We heard it few years ago. But it was really amusing. When child is angry or adamant if you make like that he will cool down and enjoy. Did you try like that any time? I must tell you how my children suffer and got angry when I went out for my work. My work place is away from my family. I am with my family members only during the weekends. I go to my family in the midweek some time. My children were very adamant and sorrowful mood on Monday morning since I had leave them for my work. I tried to pacify by all means but it all useless. They did not want me to go for work and cried like anything. I had to leave home when they were crying with sad mood. I felt very happy when they asked over phone when you are coming home again in that same evening. Even they count the days of my coming. Some time we tried to control or pacify them. but it all were useless and out of our hand. slowly they will calm down. it was a terrible time.
I was expecting your comment about my English learning experience in the previous one. You didn’t make it. Wasn’t so meaningful?

Hello Collum,
You are one of my favorite teachers of ÃÛÑ¿´«Ã½ Learning English. That is why I was expecting your comments. Sorry to trouble you. Bye.

Hello Collum,
I am a newcomer of ÃÛÑ¿´«Ã½ learning English. It is my pleasure to meet you and I really enjoy reading your blog. From my point of view, I will just simply leave the angry child and let him to think about his naive behaviour. Needless to say, sometimes we should give them advice. However, sometimes we should let them learn be self-disciplined. Maybe you would say that it is brutal for the child, but child will not always protected--especially when they leave the colleges and work in the society. This kind of training should be provided when they are still very young. It can prevent them from becoming self-ego children.

Hi,

I remember when my son, toddler then, was very angry, rolling on the street and crying. I waited for the tantrum to pass - and experienced something that felt awkward. Three elderly people stopped in order to watch and comment, saying it was inadmissible. I clearly felt they disapproved my way of doing things and would have liked to see me slap my child. Despite of the watchers I went on waiting for the tantrum to pass, which of course eventually happened.

An other of my sons was crying in a shop, but there an elderly lady surprised my son by saying "come with me". He immediately stopped crying and was ready to go with the lady, who got astonished. We exchanged a couple of words and my son stayed with me, in a calm mood. What I think worked was partly the effect of surprise.

Hi Callum,

Lovely! He seems to be very pleased with wearing his dark glasses....and it's not likely to change his mood shortly in this photo. It's always wonderful to see kids smiling. But 'tantrum'?....I am not quite sure....^^

Well....I have a grandson who will be 3 years old next month, so it's very interesting to know the experiences of bringing up a toddler of others. Though I don't look after him always, we get together quite often.

His parents, my daughter and son-in-law, seems to try hard to be a good parents...as he is their first child. Whenever he throw his tantrum, they seem to have a long talk to find out where the problems came from....I often admire them for their patience of talking to a toddler with such polite way.

These days the circumstances has enormously changed comparing my own days of raising children. Most of parents are well educated. There are many books, sites of internet that are able to get some useful advices, informations of caring children as soon as they need.

And yet, when it comes to dealing with those moments that their children behave particularly naughty, parents could be very embarrassed. Sometimes my daughter asks me some advices about her son's behaviour. I usually say "He will be changed soon, don't worry" or "Don't try to teach what's wrong or right, just hold him tightly in your arms when he is in bad mood" ...I know I can say that as I am his grandmother not his mother.

Today I've got a good idea from you Callum, very interesting idea indeed....
'time out'...It sounds well-accustomed to your son, but I am not sure if it would be the same to my grandson as they are different individuals.....^^
Anyway I'd like to let my daughter know about this writing....She might be very interested in reading it.

Thank you for sharing your experiences with us.

Hi Callum ,
Wow , Congratulation , no doubt your son is so cute ! Hope to see more shots of this wonderful boy ! Nice to hear stories of your son rare mischiefs and the time out . Hopefully my second cheeky monkey recently turned to three and his behavior magically has improved . Thanks God usually he wakes up in a good mood but some times specially when we are in a hurry to go out or to go back home he starts some tantrums . For example he sits down on stairs or locks himself to fence and he don't want to move ….. As you said the best way is to be gentle and calm : ) which is not easy Job at all !Most of the time my hubby tries to say funny words and making him to laugh and it helps a lot ! At the end Thank you for the astonishing Blog and helpful expressions and I empathise with you and I wouldn't change being a mother for the world too ;)

Hello Callum,
thank you for your a new vocabulary. James is so cute little child in this photo too, he is the best boy in the world, let him to do whatever he want.
Best wishes. Emat

Hello Callum,
I really like your attitude to teach children how to control their anger. In my opinion, we need to explain to the children that they are doing worng so that they can distinguish between right and wrong works next time. Then your methods to punish stubborn children to force them to sit one place without comic books or toys until they apologize is really amused me. As you mentioned in the article, these methods are working on your kid to learn to control anger, i would like to add one way. Children are really vulnerable and easy to manipulate. While they get angry or upset about something, we can buy toys or comic books or take them to the parks or zoos to change their mind and make it more energetic. I do believe it would help them to forget the reason of their anger and turn them into good mood.

Best wishes,
shahed

Hello Callum
I think It's wisest way to bring up your child.Though It takes much of nerves. It's really challenging matter. Most hard thing is to keep the border between to not harm the vulnerable psychology of child and don't make from your child selfish ,naughty one. Your telling and photo brings on me huge smile. Thank you.

Regards,
Sofiko

Hello Callum

I have my own way to deal with naughty kids by talking nicely to them first, if they don't listen to me, I will ignor them for a few minutes and keep an eye on them untill they realise they are wrong.

Regards,
An