Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened.
The title of this blog post is a quote from the children's author Dr Seuss. I was looking for a few nice quotes about goodbyes and this one caught my eye. There were lots of other interesting ones too. Which one do you like best?
A goodbye isn't painful unless you're never going to say hello again.
We only part to meet again.Why does it take a minute to say hello and forever to say goodbye?
Only in the agony of parting do we look into the depths of love.
There are a million ways to say goodbye in English (well that may be a slight exaggeration...). I use lots of different phrases every day with different people and in different situations. I use 'See ya' with friends, and sometimes 'See you later'. I say 'Goodbye' to the receptionist at work. I say 'mata ne' to Tomono and Oscar (but that's Japanese so don't worry about that one). Oscar usually says 'bye-bye' to me. When I'm on the phone I usually say 'speak to you later' with friends and family. At work I might say 'bye for now'. If I'm in a funny mood I might say 'cheerio' (it sounds a bit posh). After seeing friends I say 'Cheers' (even though there are no drinks!).
Hmmm...I'm sure I've missed out a few more too. Can you help me out?
Lots of my favourite singers and groups have written songs about saying goodbye (and hello). Here are a few of my favourites:
I really love the Jeff Buckley song. It is an incredibly melancholic ode to love lost that gives me goose bumps when I listen to it. It reminds me of being a university student, probably after just splitting up with an ex. I actually hadn't listened to that song for a few years and memories just came flooding back to me .
So it is time to say farewell from me. I have enjoyed the last month reading Dommi's blog and helping her with her English. It's also been a blast catching up with a few students from my time blogging 4 years ago, and of course meeting lots of lovely new students.
So what's next for the Davies family? Well, Tomono will be busy with cocoro, I'll be shooting off all over the place for work and we'll both be having fun with Oscar (especially with the holiday season coming up...).
And who knows, maybe I'll be back in another 4 years to tell you all about it.
Until then, so long and thanks for all the fish.
Lewis
Useful phrases:
(something) catches your eye
(something) gives you goose bumps
(to) split up with someone
memories come flooding back (to you)
"It's been a blast"
(to) catch up with someone